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Yes! It’s true…<\/p>\n
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There’s a new and different way to finally have the clear, loving communication you want in your relationship, so you and your partner can create the lasting closeness and intimate connection you always wished you had.<\/p>\n
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It’s called The Connection Spark Method.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n This is different<\/em> from the books, workshops, and advice you’re likely familiar with because not only will you learn to give each other what you need to feel loved and cherished, you’ll continue to build closeness, romance, and understanding over time.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n How?<\/p>\n\u21d2 By rewiring your brain to feel safe communicating together Imagine feeling<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Best of all, you don’t have to go through the thousands of dollars of expense of going to couples therapy, or watch another year pass with growing distance, disconnection, and disappointment.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n So if you want clear, loving, effective communication to create the long-term kindness and intimacy you’ve been aching for in your relationship<\/strong>, read on, and be sure to schedule a time to talk with me right away to see how this can help you and your partner.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\n You need a highly specialized expert, one who has the most current and proven training, the professional- and life-experience, and the passion and heart to help couples create deep, life-altering change. You can feel confident in my ability to help you and your partner in your unique relationship, as I have success working with hundreds of couples with many different:<\/p>\n I’ve learned what makes the difference between those who make lasting changes and those who don’t.<\/strong> I will help you and your partner so that you can be one of those couples who looks at each other with smiles of pleasure and accomplishment, knowing you have succeeded at creating the level of intimacy, romance, and connection you always wanted.<\/p>\n\t\t Distant and disconnected after focusing on raising your childrenFeeling like you’ve become strangers in the same house<\/em>Overwhelmed by not knowing how to turn things aroundFeeling lonely after working hard side by side for years<\/em>Not knowing how to talk about important concernsWondering what you’re going to argue about next<\/em>Dreading every conversation getting out of control\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\n\t\t This brings together all my experience and passion for working with couples, and I can’t wait to share it with you… If you’ve read books, gone to workshops, or gone to therapy, and it feels like nothing worked, nothing lasted… it’s not your fault. YES, learning terrific, effective communication tools is essential – BUT – your brain has wired itself to protect you from hurt, pain, disappointment… any kind of discomfort.In client after client, couple after couple, I’ve observed the pattern that has developed over time: to expect to be hurt or disappointed, and to act by default to protect against that expected hurt.<\/strong> By creating safety inside clients and couples, I’ve seen the pattern change so safety creates success and grows into an expectation of more success.The Connection Spark Method teaches you to rewire your brain’s automatic default “fight-or-flight” response, and create the safety and trust in your partner that lets those tools flow, so that you can come together and communicate<\/em> with kindness and clarity about every facet of your relationship you want to create together. When you feel safe and actually talk together, you grow and stay closer, and you light up with pleasure and happiness every time you see each other.<\/strong><\/p>\t\t\n\t\tStart to feel closer and hopeful right away\n\t\t\t An almost inescapable force that usually stops new habits before they start is your brain’s default pattern of continuing to respond to life the way you always have. And if your lives are as busy and full as most couples, you’ve grown used to responding to the urgent needs and small crises of the moment, and have been consumed by your schedule.<\/strong>Although you know that your relationship is more important than almost anything else in your life, your relationship and your partner have taken a back seat to your habit of responding to the latest urgent issue.The Connection Spark Method teaches you how to interrupt the tyranny of the “Urgent,” and use your brain’s response to the Urgent to your advantage.Research in the\u00a0European Journal of Social Psychology<\/em>\u00a0shows that with repetition, on average it takes about 66 days for a new habit to become automatic.\u00a0Create new mental pathways and strengthen them into new habits over several weeks, so that you begin to see changes right away, significant shifts in your communication, and a deeper and more profound understanding of each other.<\/strong> This will only build and grow over time.<\/p>\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\tIt doesn’t have to be this way\n\t\t\t Renowned relationship researcher Dr. John Gottman can watch couples interact, and quickly predict whether they will succeed or fail in their relationship…\u00a0if they do nothing to change how they treat each other<\/em>. Dr. Gottman’s predictive research and ability gets a lot of press, but most reports fail to mention that his prediction holds only for those couples who don’t try to change.In my thirty years of working with couples, while I am skilled at spotting the differences Dr. Gottman discovered, since those couples were in my office to change<\/em>, I didn’t<\/em> find I could tell who would succeed or fail based on that measure alone (spoiler: it’s “contempt”).Instead, I have found the biggest single difference between couples who succeed at changing and growing closer, and those who continue on the disappointing path that brought them to me:If you are both motivated<\/strong> to change, to grow, to take responsibility, to work together on your relationship<\/em>… then change IS possible.It is not too late. YOU WILL be able to benefit from the unique Connection Spark Method\u00a0if you are both motivated,<\/em><\/strong> so that you can renew your relationship. You’ll eliminate old roadblocks, shift away from old painful patterns, see hope instead of heartbreak, and learn to treat each other with the kindness, respect, attention, and warmth you both need and want.<\/p>\t\t\n\t\tThere’s a new, powerful way for couples to transform\n\t\t\t Don’t get me wrong, couples therapy is terrific, I’ve been helping couples successfully for thirty years. But… couples therapy is very expensive… you have to be willing to talk in front of someone else… you have to find a very good therapist… and good therapists are often full.According to the Doherty Relationship Institute, one of the biggest barriers to success is “Commitment Ambivalence,” where one or both members of the relationship aren’t sure they are committed to the relationship and want to work on it.\u00a0If you are both committed to your relationship and are motivated to work together,<\/strong> stop losing time and take action right away. By using the Connection Spark Method you’ll learn the research-proven communication and relationship tools you would learn in therapy but from the comfort of your own home, without having to go to a therapist’s office. You’ll save time and money, and don’t have to wait any longer searching for help.<\/p>\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t When you realize you\u2019re fighting or heading into a fight, but can\u2019t remember what to do which is normal, as you\u2019ll learn in Relationship Mastery<\/i><\/b>, this series helps you and your partner one small step at a time to stop escalating, calm down, and know when to try again.<\/p>\n When you want help having a great conversation as if I\u2019m right there by your side, this series helps you and partner step by step.<\/p>\n The Spring 2020 round of the Relationship Mastery Program is the \u201cBeta Launch.\u201d After completion of a post-program online and phone survey of your experiences with the beta round, your bonuses as a special thank you for being members of the Beta Launch include:<\/p>\n For less than the price of two couples therapy sessions with me…<\/p>\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\tBest Deal\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t This program is right for motivated couples<\/i>, who are ready to work together to learn, change patterns, participate, and come together to create the relationship they\u2019ve always wished they could have.\u00a0<\/p>\n I\u2019m so confident that this program will work for you – if you work together – that I\u2019m offering a 100% money back guarantee if the program doesn\u2019t feel right to you in the first 14 days. See complete Program Agreement for details.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t Ready toRekindle YourRelationship? Schedule your FREE no-obligation 20 minute consultation with Dr. Sarah. Find out if you’re a fit for this unique new program. Schedule Your Call! You’ll Cultivate Loving, Clear, In Your Relationship The unique, new Connection Spark Method is the single best, most effective way to rekindle lasting intimacy and closeness… without couples…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"tpl-no-header-footer.php","meta":{"inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"yoast_head":"\n
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\n\t\tHi, I’m Dr. Sarah Rattray\n\t<\/h2>\n\t\tWhen you’re ready to invest in your relationship, you want a guide you can count on and trust \n\t\t\t
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Ready to Rekindle Your Relationship?<\/h2>\n\t\tSchedule your FREE no-obligation 20 minute consultation with Dr. Sarah.
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